Self-control is one of the most powerful skills we can teach our students—but also one of the trickiest. From blurting out answers to getting up during lessons, kids are constantly learning how to manage their...
In today’s classrooms, academic success isn’t just about mastering reading and math—it’s about mastering...
If you work with kids, you know how tricky self-control can be. Whether it’s blurting out answers, interrupting, or having big emotional reactions, impulse control is a daily...
In classrooms full of busy energy and big feelings, it’s easy for students to focus only on what they think, want, or feel. But building social awareness means helping students...
Perspective-taking is a powerful part of social awareness. When students pause to consider someone else’s point of view, they’re better able to...
Social awareness also means understanding how our actions affect others. Whether it’s helping clean up a mess or noticing how tone of voice affects feelings, students thrive when...
In today’s fast-paced classrooms, teaching students how to “read the room” might seem like an extra. But in truth, it’s...
We all want kind classrooms, but where does kindness actually begin?
Not with posters or reward systems. Not with “random acts.” True kindness starts with...
We’ve all seen it—students blurting out in class, snatching a toy, or storming off during a game. Their reactions are often fast, automatic, and full of...
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“Make a good choice!”
We say it all the time. But what does that actually mean to a child?
When kids are told to make good choices without...
Let’s be honest—no one likes making mistakes. But for kids, especially in elementary school, mistakes can feel...
Have you ever asked a student how they’re feeling and gotten a shoulder shrug or a half-hearted “fine”?
It’s not that they don’t have feelings. It’s that they may not...
Reflection doesn’t have to mean staring out a window in deep thought for hours. For students, it’s often much simpler: a pause to consider what happened and...
When students get into a disagreement, it’s easy for blame and frustration to take over:
“You’re mean!”
While these reactions are natural, they often...
We often tell kids to “be good listeners,” but what we really want is for them to...
Working in a group can be tough for elementary students. Someone wants to take charge, someone else...
When two students argue, the easiest thing for an adult to do is jump in and fix it. But every time we rescue kids from...
When your child can name their feelings, they’re far more likely to manage...
Hearing “I don’t want to go” can be heartbreaking—especially when you know how much learning and...
We all want our children to come to us when they have a problem—but we also want them to...